Friday, February 8, 2008

Roll call to all my ladies...

Roll Call to all my ladies...
Upon taking inventory among my lady friends, I've noted my girls are in need of a re-up on sisterhood. I travel deep with the most fabulous, delightful and absolutely gorgeous women... TO BE EXPECTED ;o)
My circle of sisters.. This goes out to you. I love you. You are my friends till the end- Beautiful, Positive, Confident, Creative and Ambitious. DON'T you ever forget these five fabulous traits that make you- YOU and then some! It is 2008 and rejuventation is on the rise- and although some of us don't get to see each other as often as we would like- KNOW- This support system will always be with you- AND if we as friends don't continue to remind one another just how amazing each of us is... we may just lose sight.
Broken hearts... but wounds will heal with time. The bitter taste of stagnation is merely a temporary experience for growth and personal development. I feel this among quite a few of my friends. That amazing glow is looking jaded. This is a reminder to you-to remember you have got it going on my girl... And if forgotten, will be lost in translation. Open up your heart-open up your mind- re-kindle your spirit. Surround yourself with positivity and SCREW the bastards that even challenged you to look harder at yourself-only to mask the flaws and insecurities within him.
Be EMPOWERED to take steps-WITHOUT looking back and wondering about your safety and security. Continue to be true to your words and cancel ties with those who aren't. Ain't no half steppin in my life...for sure.. and the same notion applies to you.
And for love... My girls... Those lost in love, waiting for love and banning love... Let go. Love HARD- You've got LOVE!! You've got friends, you've got family and best of all sisters. For the infamous words of Sommore (Queen of Comedy) "I don't need to find LOVE, I love Jesus, I love my family and I love ME... What I need is respect.. and I LIKE, WHO LIKES ME..." I heard this a little over a month ago and I was floored- So true.. and yet so easy to forget. One day I sat with myself and declared to my orange- " I REFUSE TO WONDER WHY ANYONE.. wouldn't jump at the chance to be with me..." and however cocky that may sound.. I could care less... because I know what I have to offer and so should you my crew... We are single, eligible, educated women on a journey.. and if a man ain't with it... Please escort him to the door..

My girls... You are amazing and this is my promise to you...
Love Always,
Andrea